Save My Marriage Podcast

Your relationship doesn’t have a communication problem… it has a boundary problem.

Aston and Adam Simmonds Season 2 Episode 41

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Most couples struggling with marriage communication think they just need to get better at talking to each other. But what's really driving the arguments, the withdrawal, and the resentment is a lack of shared agreements. In this episode, Adam and Aston break down what boundaries actually are, why couples conflict keeps repeating without them, and how to build a boundary agreement that creates safety, respect, and real connection.

In this episode:

  • Why most relationship disconnection is a boundary problem, not a communication problem
  • The game analogy that reframes boundaries as structure rather than walls or control
  • How to create a shared boundary agreement that both partners actually buy into
  • Why self abandonment masquerading as unconditional love is quietly destroying your marriage

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